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The Reflection Method
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Red flag or green flag quiz

Think about the last few months, not one good or bad day. Pick how often each statement is true. Your answers stay on this device and aren't saved anywhere.

1. They keep plans and promises, or tell you early when they can't.
2. When you say no, they accept it without sulking or pressure.
3. They tell you events didn't happen the way you clearly remember.
4. After an argument, they come back to repair it and own their part.
5. They go cold or silent for days when you raise a concern.
6. They're glad when you spend time with friends and family.
7. They compare you to exes or others to make you try harder.
8. You can disagree with them without being mocked or punished.
9. They check your phone, location or spending without asking.
10. Their kindness shows up mostly right after you pull away.
11. They're curious about your feelings, not just their own.
12. You feel you have to manage their mood to keep the peace.

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