A 17-question proprietary assessment
Is this a red flag,
or is it just me?
The Reflection Method is a framework for reading the patterns in someone you're dating — the pull-away after closeness, the story that keeps changing, the feeling of walking on eggshells. Seventeen calibrated questions — written for every kind of relationship.
How your answers become a reading
Each question asks about an observable behavior or emotional pattern — how someone responds to closeness, conflict, or your boundaries. Your answers are weighted across three dimensions: narcissistic, avoidant, and healthy. The reading highlights where your scores cluster, so you can see the shape of a pattern rather than second-guess a feeling. It is a reflection framework, not a clinical test, and makes no diagnosis.
Confidential. The Reflection Method, including its questions, scoring model, and result framings, is proprietary intellectual property. Reproduction, redistribution, or derivative use is prohibited without written permission.
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