Private on-device tool
Sort what you share into three boundary tiers, profile the people who probe for information, and generate pivot scripts that never leak restricted details. Everything runs in your browser — nothing you type is stored or sent anywhere.
Move topics between tiers as your situation changes. Green is safe small talk, amber is coordination facts only, and red is never shared.
Keep the conversation light and observational. Personal feelings, vulnerabilities, and future plans are filtered out.
Sample script
Sure — happy to sort out weather. What do you need to know? Omitted: Personal plans & feelings
Share only functional facts (date, time, numbers, places). Exclude personal updates, reasons, and open-ended conversation.
Sample script
Sure — happy to sort out arrival & departure times. What do you need to know? Omitted: Personal updates & opinions
Zero personal information shared. Deflect or set a firm boundary without justification or defensive explanations.
Sample script
Oh, you know — same old, same old! Hey, that reminds me, have you seen anything good lately? Weather has been my whole personality this week. Omitted: Personal life & whereabouts
People who carry information back and forth. Pick the pattern that fits, then assign the strictest privacy tier that keeps you safe.
Means well but presses for reconciliation, using guilt appeals and “forgive and forget” framing.
Suggested tier: Safe & Surface
Asks prying questions and collects status updates, often without realizing where the information travels.
Suggested tier: Strict Logistics Only
Reports back to the high-conflict individual. Treat every detail shared as delivered directly to them.
Suggested tier: Strict Embargo
Pick the topic being probed, the contact (or a tier), and a tone. The script only uses details the contact’s tier allows — anything restricted is withheld and listed below.
Oh, you know — same old, same old! Hey, that reminds me, have you seen anything good lately? Weather has been my whole personality this week. Omitted: Personal life & whereabouts
Personal details and whereabouts left out to protect your boundaries.
Why it works: It stays friendly so there’s no conflict to report, answers nothing personal, and hands the conversation a safe topic to land on.