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Coping timeline: log the triggers, watch the week

Log the triggers that hit during and after a discard, see them grouped by week, and get a progress prompt based on what your own entries show. Stored on your device only.

Educational and non-clinical. This is not therapy, diagnosis, or legal advice.

Why a timeline helps

After a discard, every bad hour feels like proof that nothing is changing. It isn't a reliable read — distress erases the memory of the calmer days. A timeline gives you an outside record: the same trigger logged at 9/10 in week one and 5/10 in week five is evidence you cannot argue yourself out of. It also surfaces which trigger keeps repeating, which is usually the one worth removing rather than enduring.

Log a trigger

Takes about thirty seconds. Everything stays on this device — nothing is uploaded or shared.

A photo, a gift, a smell, a playlist.

There is no wrong answer here. Contacting or checking is logged the same as anything else — the pattern matters more than the day.

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This week's progress prompt

Start with one entry

Log the next trigger while it is fresh — what set it off, how strong it felt, and what you did. One week of entries is enough to see a pattern you cannot feel from inside the day.

Try this week: Log one trigger this week, even a small one.

Need something in the moment? Grounding exercises and the no-contact decision tool are one tap away.

Your coping playbook

Built from your own entries: what steadied you, what didn't, and what to reach for next time.

Nothing logged yet. Log at least 3 triggers and this section fills in with the moves that actually lowered the intensity for you.

Your timeline

Grouped by week, newest first.

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