What we cover
Most talk about green flags treats them as traits to spot. This episode looks at the everyday habits that help green flags grow in relationships where both people are willing — and why you cannot water someone into safety if they are controlling.
- Why honesty grows when it is not punished
- The parts of a real repair — and why it avoids the word "but"
- Noticing and appreciating steady, boring behaviour
- Keeping your own green flags: promises to yourself
- Boundaries as a map for closeness, not a wall
Try this
Pick one practice this week: thank someone for a hard truth, offer a repair with no "but" in it, name a steady behaviour you appreciate, or keep one promise to yourself.