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- intermittent reinforcement (2)
- isolation (2)
- trauma bond (2)
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- counterfeits (1)
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- enablers (1)
- extraction (1)
- gaslighting (1)
- green flags (1)
- hoovering (1)
- hot and cold (1)
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- pre-discard (1)
- predatory patterns (1)
- record keeping (1)
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Articles tagged “flying monkeys”
September 2, 2026 · 2 min read · Episode 11
The smear campaign: when the story about you travels without you
How a managed story about your character gets distributed before you know it exists, why reasonable people believe it, who carries it and why, and the small set of responses that actually work.
August 29, 2026 · 2 min read · Episode 7
Flying monkeys and enablers: the people in the middle
Why a controlling person recruits friends and family to gather information, carry messages, and apply pressure — and how to respond without briefing against yourself.